Design your life. You are not forced to do anything. You can change right now.
You can change your location, profession, hobbies, health, and habits. Anything.
Design the way you want to.
I get that sometimes we are constrained because of various factors which are not in our control.
But have you thought it through? Are you sure about it?
It’s always hard to make difficult choices. I remember the 15th of December 2021, when I quit my job to pursue my dreams.
I chose this. A deliberate choice for my future. Life design as I call it.
My goal in life is not to follow the societal norms.
Society says:
- Graduate at 22-23
- Do 9-5 from 24 to 58
- Marry at 26-27
- Make babies at 29-30
- Retire at 60
- Enjoy life at weekends & post-retirement
I don’t give in to these B.S rules.
It’s the biggest trap ever.
Instead, create your life design.
- I graduated at 24
- Started my business at 25
- Quit my job at 25
- I’m 27 & tet to marry
- Working & enjoying every day (not just weekends)
- Take vacations any time
- No plan of retiring as this is what I love
- Uncertain future but exciting
No one is perfect. But you can design your life in a way to makes you happy.
- Bored with the same place? Change your location. Go to a different city or country.
- Bored with the same food? Try different cuisines.
- Want a sunny weather? Go shift somewhere else.
It’s in your hands. It is.
Life design is easy to talk about but difficult to execute. Make a deliberate plan and act on it.